Speaker | Author | Workplace Collaboration Expert

Why is collaboration so dang frustrating?
Most organizations are driven by a big vision about the change they want to create in the world. But realizing this vision depends on people working well together—and that’s where things often fall apart. Even when collaboration is mission-critical, friction mounts, projects stall, and impact suffers. It doesn’t have to be this way.
The real problem isn’t malintent or apathy—it’s a fundamental misunderstanding of how people, tools, and culture shape behavior. Using the science of human connection, Deb makes those hidden dynamics visible and show organizations how to do together better—so that collaboration becomes a productive, energizing force for driving real results and bringing big visions to life.
Deb knows how messy and frustrating collaboration can be. Whether helping the Claremont Colleges turn the promise of cross-campus collaboration into innovative academic programs, standing up a national nonprofit that pushed back against echo chambers and championed curiosity, intellectual humility, and respect across political, cultural, and social divides, or guiding for-profit and nonprofit teams through complex partnerships, she has lived both the pains and the promise of working together.

With nearly three decades of experience teaching, researching, and applying the psychology of human connection, Deb brings powerful truth bombs and truth balms to every audience—naming what’s hard about collaboration while showing a clear, doable path forward.
An experienced business advisor, professor, and nonprofit executive, Deb has been featured in The New York Times, MIT Sloan Management Review, The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, Fortune, and The Atlantic. She has spoken at leading organizations including the United Nations, Siemens, Fortune, and the American Psychological Association. She is also the author of Collabor(h)ate: How to Build Incredible Collaborative Relationships at Work (Even If You’d Rather Work Alone).
Collaboration is hard—but it’s how hard things get done.
Deb knows what it takes to align people, processes, and purpose when the stakes—and the complexity—are high.
My Mantra
“Great collaboration isn't rocket science--it's relationship science.”
Core Values
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Truth-telling with integrity
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Human connection grounded in authenticity
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Viewpoint diversity and intellectual humility




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